Thursday, May 7, 2009

Some advice on the death of a friend's cat, please?

Yesterday, my friend told me that her elderly cat had a heart attack and died while trying to climb stairs. Besides her and her family's tears, her dog is deep in mourning. The dog goes outside to howl. he is throwing up all his food. What can be done to comfort the dog? Will bringing another cat into the house help?
Answers:
Our German Shepherd mourned the loss of our Aussie for many weeks. Then she seemed depressed -- until a new puppy came on the scene two months later. The Shepherd was finally back to her old self and a year later, they are best pals. It takes time, extra attention and gentle understanding to help the mourning pet through it. Nice bone treats help distract the sense of loss. Cats tend to be more independent and move on better.
Try buying a kitten.
sorry on your loss give your dog more attention than usual he will get over the loss in time
such a sad story. comfort the dog as much as you can. Animals are like people in a time of mourning they need as much acknowledgment as they can get..don't get a kitten or puppy too soon. His emotional wounds will heal but it will take time.
There is a homeopathic remedy to aid in easing grief. It is called Ignatia. I have a cat dosage and it would be the same for a dog.

".experience grief just as we do..Ignatia, a dependable homeopathic remedy for grief, is often helpful. Michele Yasson, DVM.

Dosage: Ignatia 30C. A single dose usually works or up to three times a day for two days."

"Zinnia puts back playfulness and lightheartedness in animals and even their sad human companions..Flower Essence Society (800-736-9222). Dosage: One drop twice a day in water or food, or rub a drop on the ear of the animal." Donna Mehan, DVM
I cannot best these answers, but good luck. I don't know how I'll cope when my cat Stimpy dies.
You should get another cat but it will need to look the same so it might think it is the same cat
getting another kitten isn't advisable. The dog should be given alot of attention and if he/she continues to get sick bring him/her to the vet. He's probably broken hearted which in that case the owners should be prepared. it is known that dogs can die from a broken heart. 'i ain't taking the piss ere either' It's a known fact.
bringing another cat won't help. The family and the dog are grieving. It's almost like loosing a family member - the grief is very real. All you can do is be understanding and supportive. If you're worried about the dog, give him some extra attention. These things can't be rushed - and don't diminish the pain they are feeling, it is VERY real!

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